ARCURI My father, Vince Arcuri Jr., spent his 40-year career literally and figuratively climbing the ladder of corporate success. He walked the beams framing New York City skyscrapers and then served as an executive at well-known contractors based in the city, such as Turner and Tishman and AMEC. Family photo shows Vincent James Arcuri at a Manhattan building site. He retired several years ago with the title of senior vice president. We share the same name. And like most fathers, mine dreamed that his young and only son would grow up to follow in his footsteps. My dad and I